Stupidly, I keep referring to my age without meaning to in conversation, then catching it only afterwards. I already know I'm a bit insecure about the age I turn this calendar year; it'd be fine if my mouth would quit confirming it, repeatedly.
OTOH, though I still can't go for a walk without detectable negative consequences, core strength remains approximately intact: I've just carried one microwave across two rooms and a doorway gate (the one that keeps tiny housemate in the kitchen---her paws reach the top bar if she lunges upwards, and on me it's between knee and hip height), then carried another microwave the same distance in the opposite direction. ( short and boring )
*tilts head* That seems to be enough words. Far fewer than I used to lob at related topics.
Fandom: Marvel Cinematic Universe, Captain America, The Avengers Characters/Pairings: Natasha Romanov/Maria Hill, James 'Bucky' Barnes/Steve Rogers, James 'Bucky' Barnes/Steve Rogers/Sam Wilson, Nick Fury, Phil Coulsen, various MCU characters Rating: Mature Length: 04:21:03 (41,322 words) Content Notes: Graphic depictions of violence, abuse of children by the Red Room, recollection of past pet death Creator Links:Quietnight on the Audiofic Archive, Quietnight on AO3, notcaycepollard on AO3 Themes: Female relationships, Action/adventure, Families of choice, Time travel, Fix-it
Summary: The fall is longer than Natasha expects.
It’s tears cold on her face, teeth bitten all the way through her lip and the taste of copper in her mouth; she’s falling and falling and then, bracing for impact—she wakes up.
Reccer's Notes: This is one of my favourite podfics by one of my favourite podficcers, and it's a tour de force. It's a long story by notcaycepollard that puts right Natasha's death with the soul stone - instead of dying she's sent back in time to the moment in her Red Room training she most regrets, and from that moment lives her life anew and, with her knowledge of the first time around, is able to fix the worst, most tragic disasters and losses of canon. It starts with Natasha rescuing her sister trainee black widows from the Red Room, plus Bucky the Winter Soldier who's there as well. There's a lovely, slow-burn relationship with Maria Hill in the story, but the key relationships for Natasha are with her sisters, aged from a four-year-old to teenagers when they escape, and the podfic's centre is the found family they create. The fix-it aspects are enormously satisfying and Quietnight's reading is, as ever, nuanced and fluent, beautifully performed - including all the Russian names and words, and a pleasure to listen to. An epic story and a wonderful podfic, stirring and heartwarming, and infinitely better than canon.
1. Dear Eric: I have three adult children. About three years ago there was an issue, and my oldest, Doug, and middle, Linda, disrespected each other. It wasn't a small issue, but (in my and my wife's opinion) it wasn't a huge offense.
Neither will apologize. They refuse to speak to each other.
We have tried many ways to try and bridge the gap, to no success. I'm not asking for them to kiss and make up. I'm just saying, "Be cordial, be humane to other people in our house."
We host holiday meals, and birthday parties at our house, and this animosity really hurts and makes the dynamics difficult. Even seating at the table needs to be arranged.
Recently, I told my wife, "Only people that are willing to be humane and cordial will be invited to family meals." My wife doesn't want to do that, in part she fears losing access to grandchildren. I said, "Fine, for Easter meals they can be jerks but for Christmas they have to be cordial. I'll just go upstairs because it's too painful to be there. And you can't holler at me for being a jerk, because you don't holler at them for being jerks."
2. Dear Eric: My fiancé and I had to move back into his parents due to the crippling economy. My problem lies with his father. He is fully disabled and stubborn. He has been getting up to use the bathroom, which would be OK if he could do it properly. He can't; he urinates all over the floor.
We have told him multiple times that, due to us having a child in the home, I always end up cleaning it, but I never get reimbursed. I'm seriously considering calling Adult Protective Services on grounds of self-neglect. He will not take showers as well and is a suicide risk. My issue is I want to call but I don't want to be a problem starter in a family that's already called Department of Children and Family Services on me out of pettiness. What would you do?
Today we went down to Toledo for the Thrift'n'Sip Indoor Rummage Sale. We were keenly interested in the indoor rummage sale but not the alcohol consumption. So we got up early in hopes of beating the crowd, which worked out well.
At the end of last month I visited Indiana for a week, and in that time went on FOUR hikes. There are too many pictures to put here so I'm posting a link to my ~150 picture album: My sister and I are both very into taking pictures so the hikes were very slow :D but I think it really helps in remembering that there's something interesting to see in pretty much every square inch of the outdoors. There is always a bug, or a fungal disease on a leaf, or a shiny drop of water.
a stately gentleman frog, who very kindly let me get within an inch of him
snails
two snakes
cool looking plants/fungi
general landscapes
For the most part the locations are broken up by a couple non-nature photos, except for Southwestway Park (which begins at the photo of the yellow spider in the web). Once you get to the art museum pictures there's no more nature, unless you count the clouds outside the plane window.
Item the first: I have no idea what the hell made the ominous donk-slither-donk noise in the portaloo at about midnight last night, but the phone I'd convinced myself it was was in a neat little pile with my laptop, in the tent, in the morning -- after I'd spent some time being sad about inadequate backups of photos of tiny sleepy rhinos -- which was an enormous relief (though I am also very pleased with myself for how well I handled things). (Especially given that my conviction that this was what had happened was in part based on being as aware as I could be of how abruptly my cognitive function had deteriorated with Surprise Unscheduled Migraine Onset.) (Still haven't worked out what on earth the donk-slither-donk was, but it's none of the obvious Truly Upsetting things to have lost, so I'm Currently Fine With This.)
Item the second: it is hot. This field contains lots of chamomile, and also lots of people. I am really enjoying the way it smells.
Item the third: I am really enjoying the dark chocolate + salt + nuts snack bars that crew welfare is providing, which I'd not previously noticed.
Shopping Complications By Dialecticdreamer/Sarah Williams Part 1 of 1, complete Word count (story only): 1222 [ Week of June 10-12, 2017]
:: Shiv, Luci, and Simon go shopping, originally for a “housewarming present” for Shiv’s studio. It’s a thin excuse and they all know it, but a complication might turn the outing into a nightmare. Fluff and bonding, part of the Shiv and Finn Family series in the Polychrome Heroics universe. This story was written for the June 2025 Magpie Monday, from a prompt by labelleizzy, and sponsored by siliconshaman, with my deepest thanks to both. ::
“You need something to look at when you’re not painting in your studio,” Luci insisted, linking her arm with Shiv’s.
Rolling along on Shiv’s other side, Simon said, “Because you’re keeping me busy while Tolliver is helping a buddy of ours PTSD-adapt his apartment,” he lifted one gloved hand to pat his shirt pocket, but the wheelchair continued to move smoothly, “I’m willing to be very indulgent in the presents for your studio.”
Shiv huffed, and let Luci lead the way to a home decor store. “I usually just go to secondhand stores,” he muttered under his breath. ( Read more... )
From the German name for Saverne, a town in Alsace. Originated from an
incident in 1912 involving an overzealous soldier who killed a cobbler for
smiling at him.
Used in a sentence:
“The fascist leader’s deployment of soldiers against the very citizens it
was meant to protect will always be remembered as vainglorious zabernism.”
I finished textually transcribing and posted Ro and Joanna Piekarski's zine, Trail Cooking: Clean and Green, published in 1995 and seemingly impossible to find. I found it in a free box, and while the Piekarskis are apparently the kind of people who categorize raisins and unsweetened carob chips as "dessert," their thing about light, cheap, vegetarian backpacker food seemed like it shouldn't be totally lost to the void.
At the U.N. Ocean Conference this week, French Polynesia announced the creation of the world’s largest marine protected area, covering nearly 5 million square kilometers, or over 1.9 million square miles. It also plans to add another 500,000 square kilometers by next World Ocean Day.
Of that area, 1.1 million square kilometers (424,712 square miles) will be designated as highly or fully protected, meaning only traditional coastal fishing, ecotourism, and scientific research are allowed.
It's a step forward, but my standard of FULLY protected means "humans don't go there." That's what is required for many edge-sensitive and disturbance-sensitive species. On land, if there is so much as a road through it, those species will avoid the area even if there are no vehicles using the road most of the time.
Nonviolent protests are twice as likely to succeed as armed conflicts – and those engaging a threshold of 3.5% of the population have never failed to bring about change.
In 1986, millions of Filipinos took to the streets of Manila in peaceful protest and prayer in the People Power movement. The Marcos regime folded on the fourth day.
In 2003, the people of Georgia ousted Eduard Shevardnadze through the bloodless Rose Revolution, in which protestors stormed the parliament building holding the flowers in their hands. While in 2019, the presidents of Sudan and Algeria both announced they would step aside after decades in office, thanks to peaceful campaigns of resistance.
In each case, civil resistance by ordinary members of the public trumped the political elite to achieve radical change.
There are, of course, many ethical reasons to use nonviolent strategies. But compelling research by Erica Chenoweth, a political scientist at Harvard University, confirms that civil disobedience is not only the moral choice; it is also the most powerful way of shaping world politics – by a long way. ( Read more... )
The Magpie Monday prompt call for June 2025 went well, with six prompts I’ve finished posting the freebie, the longest of the stories written, and everyone else has gotten their reading copies.
For six prompts, the word count for stories only, not counting title or notes, etc., added up to twelve thousand, one hundred twenty-four words (12,124). I am quite pleased!
Thank you to everyone who prompted, boosted the signal, or commented. ( Read more... )
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periru3 and I have posted the first two vids in our ongoing vid album Jagged Little Slayer, a mashup of Buffy the Vampire Slayer and Alanis Morissette:
Title: All I Really Want Character/Pairing: Buffy-centric, minor Buffy/Angel, Buffy/Faith, Buffy/Spike Summary: Here, can you handle this? Notes: Premiered at VidUKon 2025.
I'm aphantasic - I do not and cannot create pictures in my mind's eye. My mind does not have an eye. But there have been just a few times very recently where in the first moments upon waking in the morning, there's an image in my mind and I feel like I can SEE it. Like, see it see it! As if I were looking at it with my eyes! It always vanishes within a few moments, but my god, is that a glimpse into what it's like to NOT be aphantasic??
Now, though, I'm wondering which of several things is true:
1. Am I weirdly suddenly able to access a tiny amount of picturing things, out of nowhere?
Or
2. Is the dreamy confusion of waking up making me *feel* like I'm picturing things but not *actually* picturing things? It lasts so briefly that I actually can't be sure!
Or
3. Have I always genuinely able to picture things in my sleep, but not awake, but because I only conscsiously experience dreams through the medium of remembering them, I've never been able to tell that - and a change in recent sleeping habits means I have been holding on to a snatch of a dream just long enough to get the sense of it with my waking mind?
Or something else????
Anyway these brief snatches of mind-pictures have been a baffling thing to experience, as something I've never previously been able to do in my life ever, and all of a sudden I'm a little more of a true believer that other people DO do this thing all the time!
It always seemed so fake to me before. So made up. How could a person PICTURE things?! That's just a metaphor, surely! We're using words about images to describe the experience of thinking about a thing, because the actual experience of thinking is so unlike anything in the physical world that there are no words to describe it! Right? Right????
I guess for lots of people, they literally are creating pictures in their head with their brains, all the time.
WILD.
Now I really wish I had a better way to explain what my experience of thinking is like, tbh. Because all I have is metaphor, to translate it into words! But those metaphors are apparently concrete factual experiences to other people, so I won't be successfully communicating!
This is similar to my experience with words, btw. I *can* think in words, more than I can with pictures, but that's me deliberately creating the words and sentences. I'm translating my thoughts into words with conscious effort.
My thoughts aren't words. My thoughts aren't pictures. My thoughts are thoughts!
How are so many people's thoughts NOT just thoughts!
Ever since D's girlfriend broke her leg while roller skating last weekend, my ankle has been sore, something it hardly ever does any more and I've done nothing physical (like walk a lot) to cause it.
So I have tried yelling "Shut up, this is clearly psychosomatic! You're fine!" at it. Repeatedly.
Disappointingly, this doesn't seem to be working. (I didn't really expect it to. I'm just saying it woulda been nice if it did, is all!)
I was pleasantly surprised this week by a couple of emails that let me know that my Durmstrang series had been moved to an Archive of Our Own as part of the Open Door project (Thank you, Heidi!heidi8 ) Someone had already claimed my author name from FA, so in a fit of no imagination whatsoever, I'm now LoupNoirDurmstrang over there. There's one story that never made it to Schnoogle that should get uploaded to the site. I've got FAQs open to help me figure the steps out.
This whole week has been an exercise in careful movement, because tomorrow is a pelagic birding day. I've been on a boat when my back's been unhappy, and it isn't a pleasant experience. Someday, I'll take another trip out to the Farallons, preferably without back spasms.
Title: Jim Artist:goss Fandom: Our Flag Means Death Character: Jim Jimenez Rating: G Content Notes: For drawesome Challenge #71 - Pride!. Digital drawing of Jim, an awesome non-binary character on Our Flag Means Death, using the non-binary flag colours yellow, white, purple and black. I was also inspired by the ceaseless fluidity and flow of the wide open ocean. :)
Title: Jim Artist:goss Fandom: Our Flag Means Death Character: Jim Jimenez Rating: G Content Notes: For Challenge #71 - Pride! Digital drawing of Jim, an awesome non-binary character on Our Flag Means Death, using the non-binary flag colours yellow, white, purple and black. I was also inspired by the ceaseless fluidity and flow of the wide open ocean. :)
Today is cloudy, mild, and damp. It rained off and on yesterday.
I fed the birds. I've seen a few sparrows and house finches.
EDIT 6/14/25 -- I put out water for the birds.
I did a bit of work around the patio.
EDIT 6/14/25 -- I did more work around the patio.
I've seen a skunk on the patio.
I checked the new picnic table and septic garden. The first of the 'Chocolate Sprinkles' tomatoes is showing color. :D One of the chocolate cherry tomatoes has its first green fruit, and so does the 'Carmen' Italian sweet pepper. The yellow squash just bloomed. The zucchini has flower buds.
EDIT 6/14/25 -- I started trimming some low-hanging branches from the Home Base mulberry tree. I filled a trolley with twigs and leaves, then dumped it in the brush pile.
EDIT 6/14/25 -- I trimmed more branches, filling another trolley.
I've seen a catbird and a mourning dove.
EDIT 6/14/25 -- I trimmed more branches, filling another trolley.
I found the first couple of ripe raspberries along the south fence in the ritual meadow. I'll have to check the prairie garden tomorrow.
EDIT 6/14/25 -- I found a second log for the base of the next bonfire and put that in the firepit. I started building the criss-cross chimney above it but then it got too dark to find the right kind of sticks. I'll have to finish that tomorrow.
The fireflies are coming out. :D There are lots more tonight. They love this warm damp weather.
I saw at least 2 and probably 3 bats. They're quite large for microbats, so likely big brown bats. See bats of Illinois. I'm thrilled to have bats, because the mosquitoes are also coming out. Fly, my pretties, fly! \o/
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Last night I was plugging away with my rebooted computer last night. Trying to remember sites I had book marked and such things. Late into the night it was starting to act a bit slow, so I thought I would turn it off and give it a rest. When I went to turn it back on, it again started spinning and taking it's time loading up. I thought, here we go again.
Then my body took over and decided it was time to fall asleep. lol...
When I did wake back up, I also woke up my computer and logged onto it.
And ALL MY STUFF WAS BACK ON THE COMPUTER AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yet another great word from Douchet’s Nouvelle Vague (see this post)! In a passage on Jacques Rivette, he writes: “Dire de Rivette que l’Histoire des Treize de Balzac est son livre de chevet, et l’idée du complot la base et de sa vie et de son cinéma, relève de la lapalissade.” [To say of Rivette that Balzac’s The History of the Thirteen is his bedside book, and that the idea of conspiracy is the basis of both his life and his cinema, is a matter of lapalissade.] The last word was unknown to me, so I checked Wiktionary: “An obvious, self-evident truth, especially humorously so; a tautology or truism.” The etymology is sheer delight:
From the name of Jacques de la Palice (a French nobleman and military officer, died in the Battle of Pavia, 1525) + -ade. His epitaph reads ci gît Monſieur de la Palice: s’il n’était pas mort, il ferait encore envie (“here lies the lord of La Palice: if he weren’t dead, he would still be envied”). However, due to the similarity between the letters ⟨f⟩ and ⟨ſ⟩ (long s), it was misread (accidentally or intentionally) as the truism s’il n’était pas mort, il serait encore en vie (“if he weren’t dead, he would still be alive”).
On Thursday I went into Newcastle for my Reading Group, and as I had promised myself, I took my camera with me.
The town was heaving - the station was heaving, the train was heaving, and Durham station was pretty busy, too - mostly with people in black-and-white football strip. At first I thought there must be a home game, and muttered to myself about there being no closed season these days, but it turned out to be in honour of Sam Fender, local lad and superstar, who was playing that night, the first of three concerts at St James' Park. Much of this I learned from a lady who accosted me as I was sitting on a bench in the town centre: she told me I was the image of her sister-in-law, and wanted to take my photograph. It wasn't yet five o' clock, but the party had already started.
Even in Forth Lane there had been people (it's usually very quiet) but not enough to deter me from photographing the murals. I've started at the end, because that magpie is a detail of a mural which spreads across the wall at one end (the far end, if like me, you started at the Central Station): the lane is too narrow, and the light and shade were too extreme, for more than this detail of the picture, but it's an appropriate detail.
Rain or shine, dozens of No Kings protests are planned throughout Minnesota on Saturday. The largest event will be at the Minnesota State Capitol in St. Paul, and FOX 9 has put together a list of protests and start times across the state. Via MinnPost https://www.fox9.com/news/no-kings-protest-minnesota-list
‘Hip-hop is innovation’: New street dance festival brings cyphers, dance battles to St. Paul Also this weekend: the Asian Street Food Night Market returns with more than 35 food vendors; a new Somali arts festival debuts on Lake Street; and a film series highlighting communities of color screens in Minneapolis by Myah Goff https://sahanjournal.com/arts-culture/twin-cities-things-to-do-street-dance-somali-arts-asian-market/
After dry spells contributed to wildfires in northern Minnesota, we now have the opposite problem: a days-long deluge. As Bring Me The News reports, some parts of the state will see up to five inches of rain. “[C]onsistent rain will move slowly east Friday morning, continuing on and off through the weekend and into early next week, with central Minnesota and the Twin Cities potentially seeing the largest amounts.” Via MinnPost https://bringmethenews.com/minnesota-weather/flooding-risk-as-storms-set-to-bring-over-5-inches-of-rain-to-minnesota
Tulane University scientist resigns citing environmental censorship Kimberley Terrell’s research into health and job disparities had triggered a backlash from state and Tulane leaders This story is co-published with Floodlight Terry L Jones for Floodlight https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2025/jun/13/tulane-university-scientist-resign
By 4 a.m., a breeze had begun to blow across the stadium near the center of Baghdad, but Qaid al-Sheikhli was still sweating through his dishdasha. He was six hours into a championship quarterfinals match of mheibes, one of the world’s most challenging mental sports. His team, al-Sa’doun, was down by 10 points. The clock was running out.
When you hear the game described, mheibes doesn’t sound difficult. It sounds impossible. Assembled on the court in front of al-Sheikhli were his opponents: 45 men from the city of Najaf, arranged in three neat rows. One of these players held a silver ring. It was al-Sheikhli’s job to determine which one—and in which fist he held the ring—judging only by his facial cues and other tells.
Al-Sheikhli had already made significant progress toward this goal: He and his fellow captain had narrowed the field of suspects to four. A referee in a red vest hovered nearby with a stopwatch. Each team started with just five minutes to find the ring, per that year’s tournament rules; if that time elapsed, their opponents got the point.
Now al-Sheikhli bore down on one of the remaining defenders, a middle-aged man in a light-blue robe. “Fists and face!” he barked in Baghdadi-accented Arabic. The Najaf player stretched out his arms, fists still clenched, and lifted his head to look into the captain’s eyes. He held this pose for three seconds, as required by the tournament’s rules, while al-Sheikhli scanned his face. “Taliq! ” the captain cried, while slapping at the man’s two hands in quick succession. He thought the fists were empty, and he was right. When the man exposed his palms, al-Sa’doun fans in the bleachers rose to their feet, roaring in approval.
By narrowing the field to three men, al-Sheikhli had earned his team a bit of bonus time—two extra minutes on the clock. He huddled with his fellow captain. In several earlier rounds, they’d managed to identify Najaf’s ring bearer, but had picked the wrong hand and lost the point. “It was the Najaf fists,” al-Sheikhli told me later. “They were difficult.”
When the captains broke their huddle, al-Sheikhli called to the crowd, his arms outstretched. The al-Sa’doun fans answered with another cheer. Now he turned on one of the three remaining suspects, a young man with shaggy hair and his jacket pulled up around his neck—a common move to hide the pulsing of the carotid artery. Al-Sheikhli called for “fists and face” again, and the referee pulled back the man’s hair so that his face was fully visible. For the full three seconds, the captain stared him down. Finally, he gestured to the man’s right hand. “Jiib,” he said. Give it to me. The man opened his hand, and the stadium lights reflected, at last, on a glint of silver.
Lying is a fundamental human act, and bluffing games of one sort or another are found in cultures around the globe. Latvian children play a ring-hiding game of their own, and “hunt the slipper” was a popular hiding-and-bluffing game in Victorian parlors. Across North America, Indigenous groups enjoy a sport not unlike mheibes, in which players must find bones hidden in the fists of an opposing team.
The great U.S. contribution to bluffing games, of course, is poker, now a global industry worth approximately $100 billion. I covered poker for about a decade, and I’ve met some of the game’s virtuosos in the art of spotting tells. Even so, when I first learned about mheibes, and started poring over the match videos posted on YouTube and Facebook, I was awestruck by the captains’ skill. A poker player might need to study eight other people at their table. A mheibes captain takes stock of perhaps 45 distinct opponents—or, really, 90 different fists. Mheibes captains do not succeed at this task every time. But I came to understand that top players spot the ring with shocking regularity.
I had to see this for myself. Last year, I went to Baghdad, where the game is said to have been invented, and where it’s played, by tradition, on nights during the holy month of Ramadan, after the breaking of the fast. The details of its origins remain unclear: Some say it started in the 1500s, during the Ottoman era; others trace it back to the Abbasid caliphate many centuries earlier.
Mheibes-league officials told me the modern rules began to take shape during the 1990s, under the regime of Saddam Hussein, who made the game a symbol of the nation. The game endured even after Hussein was toppled (due in part to his own failed attempt at bluffing). Since then, the number of teams competing has grown more than tenfold, and organized tournaments, once confined to Baghdad, now pop up from Basra, in the south, to Erbil, in the north. Last year, in a groundbreaking move, the Baghdadi Museum hosted a public mheibes game for women.
My seat for the April 2024 match between al-Sa’doun and Najaf was by the judge’s desk. Sitting to my right was Jassem al-Aswad—the judge himself, a grand figure in a green dishdasha. Al-Aswad is the greatest mheibes player in living memory, and his fame among Iraqis extends beyond the game. In 2008, when the country was mired in sectarian violence, he marched a team onto the Bridge of the Imams, which connects a neighborhood that contains a holy Shiite shrine to a Sunni stronghold across the Tigris. The span had been the site of one of the Iraq War’s greatest civilian calamities, and had only just reopened. One night, al-Aswad brought out players from both sides of the river, who met up in the middle to play for peace.
Al-Aswad, now in his early 70s, seemed to enjoy his new role on the sidelines. He took evident pleasure in shouting to the fans, and playing with the kids who ran up to him with their fists closed, hoping to fool the great man. He also kibitzed with his old friend Ali al-Lami, the octogenarian retired captain of the al-Habibiya team, who sat nearby. We watched together as the teams from al‑Sa’doun and Najaf launched into the next round of their match. It was after 5 a.m. Now al-Sa’doun would hide the ring.
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Supporters brought out a stretch of gold-fringed fabric to obscure the team’s choice of ring holder. In mheibes, defensive strategy is just as crucial as offense, and the placement of the ring unfolds with Masonic complexity. A team captain might put his hands over each player’s fists in turn, either placing a ring inside of one or pretending to. (If players know which teammate has the ring, they might betray that knowledge on the court.) Sometimes a captain places extra rings and steps back to scan his teammates’ faces. Have the men with rings begun to sweat? Are their fists uneven? Using all of this information, a captain makes a second pass, and perhaps a third, until he has removed all the rings but one.
When al-Sa’doun had finished and the players settled in their rows, the Najaf captains stepped onto the court. As they made their rounds among the rows of al-Sa’doun men, al‑Lami leaned across me. “Jassem,” he said to al-Aswad. “Second row. In the green, near the end. Eh? It’s him. Only I can’t tell which fist.”
“Right fist,” al-Aswad replied. “I’ve played that guy before.”
We were at least 20 feet away from the nearest player, and the man they were talking about was maybe another 30 feet from there. I squinted at the man they’d identified. My eyes, younger by decades than either al-Lami’s or al-Aswad’s, couldn’t make much out. Neither could Najaf’s star captain. When he stopped in front of the man in green to study his fists and face, he gave no sign of seeing anything unusual.
A minute or two later, the Najaf captains began eliminating players. They counted out several in the second row. But before they could continue, one of those dismissed cried out “Baat!,” which meant he had the ring. It was the man in the green dishdasha—the one al-Lami and al-Aswad had pegged from about 50 feet away. And just as al-Aswad had predicted, the ring was in his right fist.
A mheibes captain’s talent can seem miraculous, or even suspect to the non-Iraqi viewer. But if mheibes were a sham—if its matches were scripted in advance, like some kind of Iraqi WrestleMania—then the private conversation I’d just observed would have to have been prewritten too. Mheibes suggests a more compelling possibility, which is that the art of peering into people’s faces and uncovering deceit may be honed to astonishing precision.
Some researchers believe that people can be prodigies at lie detection. Other scholars aren’t sure these so-called wizards are real. Mark Frank, a communication professor at SUNY Buffalo, is in the former camp, and helped create some of the most ambitious lie-detection studies to date. But when I showed him some clips of mheibes captains’ feats, even he was taken aback. Frank wondered at the circumstances that had led them to develop such extraordinary skill. A curious pattern had emerged from the early work on wizards, he told me: A large number of them had experienced a tumultuous childhood. Some were the children of alcoholics. Later research found wizards who were raised in institutions or in violent environments. Scholars theorized that for these people in particular, the ability to read adults’ expressions when they were young might have been lifesaving. (This made me think of Jerry Yang, one of poker’s face-reading masters—and an ethnic Hmong who grew up, for a time, in a Thai refugee camp.)
The past two generations in Iraq have endured an almost unthinkable progression of wars, mass migrations, and humanitarian crises. Even in the relative calm of recent years, bombings still occur with regularity. “That,” Frank told me, “is an environment ripe for producing people who are good detectors of subtle clues.”
When I got the chance to float this theory to actual mheibes players, they were unimpressed. Mheibes has been around for longer than the recent conflicts, al-Sheikhli, al-Sa’doun’s co-captain, told me. And one generation of modern players grew up in the 1970s, when Baghdad was a mostly peaceful, modernizing oasis.
“I grew up watching other captains. I played a lot. That’s how I learned,” al-Sheikhli said. He grabbed a ring for demonstration and closed his fist around it. Then he pointed to a spot between his second and third knuckle. There’s a tendon there that fastens the dorsal interossei muscle to bone. It’s almost invisible. But al-Sheikhli said it sometimes bulges out a tiny bit when someone has the ring, and captains learn to spot it only through extensive practice. (His willingness to share this tip surprised me. Over months of interviews, I’d learned that most mheibes players won’t discuss their strategies at all.)
But even a captain’s favored methods may lose efficacy as a match wears on. Ali al-Lami warned me that mheibes changes after sunrise. Finding the ring can get more difficult, he said. Whether from the return of fasting or sheer exhaustion, players may become impassive. The captains, too, may start to wilt. One viral video on TikTok shows a captain toward the end of a 15-hour match, probing his opponents in the daytime heat, as run-down as a senator in the final moments of a filibuster.
The quarterfinals match I saw finished shortly after 9 a.m., when Najaf scored its 13th point and won the game. Fans streamed to the exits, food stalls closed, players boarded buses. Eventually, a few men came over to where I was sitting, picked up the judge’s desk, and walked it back into the small stadium office where it’s stored. If this had been a neighborhood game, the winners would have received, by tradition, a plate of sweets. In the mheibes major leagues, however, no such prize is offered. For once, all of the Najaf players were empty-handed.
This article appears in the July 2025 print edition with the headline “The World's Hardest Bluffing Game.”